I know this is an odd title but really it’s very true. You wouldn’t think that a paper good could act as a wingman, after all a wingman is someone who comes along with you and keeps you company at a bar or wherever so that you can score a date. I know it’s a strange thing to bring up but I promise you that the point to my story is real and could be very helpful!!

I have share before that the planner is more than a place for me to write down appointments. It’s a place for me to get creative, write down to do’s, organize my life and most importantly allow me to write out the life that I want. I have always used my planner in this fashion. Since I was a kid I would sit with my planner open at my desk and write down quick notes of things that I wanted to do not only in school but things I wanted to do at home as well. Things I wanted to look up at the library or books that I wanted to read because the teacher mentioned or kids talked about at school. It’s a place that acts like a part two to my brain. It handles all the little details so that I don’t have to stress about forgetting them.

Planners really helped me all throughout high school as well. As a rebellious teen ( no not really) I decided to get my cartilage pierced on my ear against my parents wishes and by doing so it became very infected. I needed to go to the emergency room to have it drained and cleaned as well as placed on IV antibiotics for several days. Being that I wasn’t really ill and could walk around with my IV pole I remember very clearly sitting in the hall way of the hospital and looking at the nurses station. I sat there watching these men and women walk back and forth always looking so busy. When my dad came later to visit I shared with him that I wanted to be a nurse. I quickly turned to my planner and began to figure out how to make this happen. Back at school I met with my counselor and took the next steps to apply to colleges and make visits to make decisions on where I should go. Every little detail was poured over the pages of my planner. I could not imagine not having a planner. I have had a planner every single day of my life since I was 8.

Once I got into nursing school I began scripting out what kind of nurse I wanted to be. I began working at the hospital as a nurses aid at the age of 18 and observed each of the units. I took copious notes of things that I learned and where my days were spent. Believe it or not it helped me decide that I wanted to work as a surgical nurse. I loved the idea of people coming in with something broken and usually watching them recover fully. It felt very gratifying to work with people who had a great chance of a full recovery. I even documented patients that had passed on my shift. I would write down questions that came up so that I could google them later when I went home. My planner is and was an extension of me. Again, I could not imagine life without it!!

Even now as a mom I use my planner all the time. I use it  to track my babies sleep and any patterns I notice. Any time there is a behavior I don’t care for I write everything down to see if there are patterns or things that need to be changed or things that act as triggers.

So you see, a planner is so much more than just a place to notify you of events, it’s a place to open your mind up in. It’s a place to help you write the life that you want. It’s a place for you to write all the details out to make things happen. Only YOU can make things happen and if you don’t write down the action steps to do them, then chances are they will just always remain a dream!

Grab your planner and get to know it! It’s your best friend, your wingman, there to really help you live the life that you want. Look at tomorrow in your planner and write down what you want to happen. Do you want a raise at work, what do you need to do to make that happen? Do you want a different job, what needs to happen? Do you want to be a better parent tomorrow, what can you do to make that happen? Use your planner each and every day and all day, you will quickly grow very attached to it and realize that it makes your life so much better. It’s a place to help you be a better you. It will never judge you or steer you in the wrong direction. Believe me my planner has always been by my side and I could not imagine a better life. I’m so grateful each and everyday to have had this amazing tool with me all my life. It’s been through the ups and downs the good the bad and ugly but it’s always been there!!

Now, do you see your planner in a different way?


This thought recently came to me because I was at a wedding and someone asks ‘ so what are you up to these days? ‘ ‘ do you miss working as a nurse?’. When I try to share my excitement about how I have a youtube channel that focuses on paper planners people get this glazed over look. They suddenly lose interest in what I have to say. Many say ‘ that’s so 90’s’  or my favorite ‘ why bother writing it down, put it in your phone’.  If people are genuinely interested I will share with them how paper planning has scripted my life, how it has completely changed my life for the better.

From the time I was 8 years old I have had a paper planner. The obsession honestly started with Chandlers planners. I remember having one each and every year and just changing out the colors. This was such an essential tool for me in school. It was on my desk or on my stack of books, always went home with me and each of my classes was color coordinated with an ink joy pen. This helped me to never miss assignments. Always be prepared when tests and quizzes might happen, what text books I would need to take home with me. I could not imagine life with out one. How in the world do you function without one?  The images featured below are not my images because all of my Chandlers were unfortunately destroyed but this is to give some eye candy of just how great these planners were. chandlers

chandler 2When I really thought about how planners changed my life one of my first memories was trying to lose weight. I was a chubby kid and new I wanted to change that. The journey was a long one and it took me a long time to figure out how my body works. I had to write down in my planner each and every day what I was eating and tracking physical activity. I needed to make sure that I wasn’t depriving myself of anything and enjoying life but also enjoying and feeling comfortable in my own body. Tracking all this in my planner ultimately turned me into an adult that was fit and heathy.  Don’t believe  that story? Well, luckily I have several more. When I was 15 I went ahead against my parents’ wishes and got the cartilidge of my ear pierced. I knew that it was infected but I still went about a week without telling my parents that it really hurt me. I finally approached my mom and well ended up having to have it drained and cleaned and put on antibiotics for several days. While I was on the unit I remember clearly seeing the nurses station. I watched them all day long and when my dad came to see me after work I told him I wanted to be a nurse. I went back into my room and wrote down questions for my counselor. Back at school I set up and appointment with my counselor and he pointed me to the career center. I spoke with the helpful ladies in there and wrote down all the information I needed to get into nursing school . I set up appointments in my planner for all the different universities and all their options. I then went through my acceptances what I could afford and made a decision based on that. Without my planner I’m not sure how that would have panned out. My planner is my right hand man, it is always close by. It holds all of my secrets, notes, thoughts, basically my brain. I feel as though my brain would not be able to process as many new things if I did not have my planner.

In college my planner was ESSENTIAL!!   I had almost 18 credit hours ( the equivalent to a full load, all day classes ) for my four years in college. I had many social activities as well as taking part in as much as I could with the school of nursing organization. We had a dance and fundraisers as well as open houses. I had clinicals that I needed to schedule. Each and every minute I could spare needed to be dedicated to studying. I think I went through a pack of highlighters and notecards a week. The planner was essential and the bigger the planner the better! Studying for boards, the planner helped me to schedule study times and give me a count down until it was time to take them.

The planner has been essential to me each and every day. It is not just a place to write down appointments it’s a place to script your life. It’s a way of living. It’s a way to make your life happen. Make things happen. Make your wants into something attainable.

I could not imagine life without one!


I LOVE my travelers notebooks. I love my dogs. Why not combine them? How might you ask? Well the other day I went to my P.O. Box and received a wonderful package from Glenda who is the shop owner of bypaperflower on etsy. Now I am no stranger to Glendas’ work because she was kind enough to send me a beautiful cover for my hobonichi that I absolutely love and adore. I still use it each and everyday because I love how it feels in my hands as well as the wonderful leather aroma that it has.

This time I was so shocked at the gift that I received that I squealed and jumped up and down. My husband was definitely giving me an interesting look to say the least. Once he did see the gorgeousness that Glenda had gifted me he could totally understand. I immediately ran to my camera and filmed the unboxing. 

Here are some close up looks of the travelers notebook.

IMG_20160525_155543     The leather on this travelers notebooks is very floppy, and supple. This will show beautiful age and will scuff so nicely. The aroma of the leather is once again intoxicating. The picture of Nacho is one that Tracy Reinhardt had done for me and it’s absolutely amazing. She did an incredible job of capturing him and she sent me the original copy that I have hanging in my home. I just love to have his picture with me at all times. Our pets are so beloved to us and I have had Nacho for 12 years now. He has been with me since I was a senior in college. I have lived in several apartments and houses, several relationships and jobs kids and other pets. Nacho has been there right by my side to see me through it all. To have him on a notebook is just everything. I LOVE looking at this notebook and it just brings a big smile to my face.

The attention to the pockets is always a favorite of mine when it comes to travelers notebooks. Some folks love to keep theirs simple and I of course can appreciate this but with the way that people are now using TN’s with stickers and as wallets it makes lots of sense to include pockets to house all of these items.

DSC_0059DSC_0053The charms are also such a great little touch. Many really love to personalize their TN and charms are really the perfect way to be able to do this. I love that the charms are really light weight and a cute embellishment. The elastics are really great and sturdy. That’s something that actually is important because if the elastics are flimsy and not right then your notebooks are not placed nicely and can make for a really uncomfortable experience with your TN.

The pockets in the back have a thinner piece of leather that has an almost gold shine to it. Being that it is a thinner piece  is really great because it doesn’t add to much weight or bulk to the notebook. If you start to put in your notebooks and pockets and folders and organizers etc, then you will see how beneficial it really is to have slimmer pieces of leather to make up your pockets. DSC_0060

Of course the best for last, the photo of Nacho! Nacho is actually printed onto the leather and then that same gorgeous leather fabric that makes the pockets on the inside is stitched around his photo! It’s a really beautiful touch that I just love so so incredibly much. The amount of heart that went into putting this beautiful gift together for me is just amazing and I don’t know how I could ever thank her for giving me something that I can treasure forever!


Getting to be a part of this amazing community in and of itself is amazing. Getting invited to an amazing event like Blitsy held a few weeks ago is just heaven. Not only do I get to meet other like minded individuals, people who understand the passion of stationary and ‘needing’ just one more planner, but I also had the pleasure of meeting venders and watching them perfect their craft. 2016-05-21 16.19.33

During this event I firstly was just amazed at the studios. The studios are located in my hometown of Chicago and on a beautiful April day walking around the studio was just so inspiring. All the great places to decorate and get inspired to periscope and take great photos. We also were gifted swag bags full of amazing goodies to play with at home!! Each of the companies that shared goodies also shared some amazing ways to use the products. Deco foils shared some really creative ways to use foils to spruce up your dashboards and cards. I made a video sharing how I was able to add gorgeous foils to my calendar pages here.

Happy Planner also gifted some amazing goodies to add to my planner pages. I also love using the disc bound system because it’s so versatile. It’s a system that is completely customizable and you are all to do with it what you want, rearrange pages with great ease. One of the draw backs of a spiral bound planner is that you can’t add or take away pages so with the discs this takes that problem away.

Along with the amazing goodies and demonstrations I had the pleasure of meeting some amazing women that contribute to the planner community. Women who constantly inspire and allow for that little stationary elf in our minds to continue to add to our planners and change them out as often as we like. Stickers are such a large part of adding a little happy to our planners and I was fortunate enough to see many women display some very inspiring spreads in their planners.

While there a panel was put together to answer questions to the guest that attended the event. I had the honor being on the panel with some really amazing women to help me answer some questions.

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After being on the panel I had the pleasure of getting some amazing pictures with some really wonderful women!!!



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So many wonderful ladies who just continue to inspire me 20160423_154010 20160423_153914

If you have never heard of blitsy and are curious about the site here is a link . The site not only sells amazing crafty items at great prices but also includes daily streaming and many many videos that help boost my creativity constantly!! Here is a link to their youtube channel , I’m almost positive you won’t be disappointed with this channel!! I hope you enjoyed seeing a little glimpse into the amazing day that I had with Blitsy!!signature



I LOVE reading, I always have. The kindle Voyage  has just completely changed how often I read and how much I read. I love to carry it around in my purse because anytime I’m in the doctors office or in line at the grocery store I can usually get through a few pages if not a chapter. I love that people can’t see what I’m reading and do to the fact that we are a digital world I just kind of  blend right in when I am using it. I just can’t say enough amazing things about it.

Instagram and all the book tubers that are on there also help increase the volume of books I have been reading because it’s been one great read after another and I just can’t get enough.

So what am I boasting about in this post, well the title is Hawthrone & Heathcliff  by Regina Wamba. Before you roll your eyes at the cheesy cover of the book believe me it’s worth a read. I love reading all types of books but I mostly prefer young adult because it’s truly for pleasure. This book I have to say is so well written and the characters are so incredibly well developed that I read the book in two days. I just devoured the book. Could not get enough and when I was not reading the book I was constantly curious what was to come of the characters. What would happen. The story is incredibly wonderful and pulling at your heart. You will cry, you will feel like life isn’t fair, you will even think I want to be her or him. The amount of emotions you will feel are incredible. The book is smart, and I know that’s an odd thing to say but it’s written in a very intelligent way, not the corny kind of teenager talk that you might find in R.L Stine, (even though I am still to this day a huge fan), it’s just well written.

Without giving anything away I love how the author makes something like old sneakers something very cute and romantic. You will know what I mean once you read it! If your a romantic I think this is right up your alley, if your not I think you will love it still for the story line and the real life hardships.

This is a book I will reread several more times, I can not tell you how many people I have recommended this book to and everyone has just completely fallen in love. The story moves so beautifully and deals with real life issues. It makes you FEEL, and that isn’t always possible with books. The author just does a phenomenal job. I gave this book five stars on good reads and wish I could give it ten!!

Have you read this book? What are your thoughts?signature

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